I was 5
years old, and this was my go-to game when my mom’s friend Chris came around. I’d
make a grand entrance in whatever outfit my mom had put me in that morning, and
Chris would describe my little-kid ensemble as though I had stepped onto a
catwalk.
When I was
a kid, I thought Chris was one of greatest people in the world. I still do.
Chris and
my mom grew up as best friends and neighbors, but to me, Chris has always been
family. Birthdays were always more special when she was around. Even being dragged
to the grocery store with my mom became fun and exciting if Chris was coming
too. I horned in on as many of their outings as I could, and Chris always made
me feel like I was just one of the ladies.
Chris
showed up when times were tough, too. When I was 15, my grandfather died
unexpectedly. His death didn’t really hit me until I got to his funeral, and
suddenly, I started crying and couldn’t stop. I stood there, helpless and
panicking, while sobs took over my body.
Suddenly,
Chris was there. She whisked me into another room, pulled a Kleenex out of her
purse for me, and distracted me. I don’t remember what she said, but it was the
right thing. Soon, I was smiling, and even laughing. Chris had
rescued me. To this day, she is always the first to step up when my family or I need it.
Over the years, Chris was always there with a
funny joke and a big heart. And she always came up with fun things to do. She,
my mom, and I went to Atlantic City, a mountain resort, and even just to the
DMV — because even the worst errands were fun when we were together.
I’m in my
30s now, but Chris still tells me “You’re JUST A KID” every time she tries to
pay my way when we do something fun. Now, we fight over who gets to treat. But
I wasn’t prepared for what she did two years ago.
I was planning my wedding on a tight budget. I decided try on gowns at a bridal shop, find my favorite dress, and search for something similar — but thousands of dollars cheaper — on eBay. Since the bridal shop was right in Chris’s neighborhood, my mom and I invited her to join us for lunch.
I was planning my wedding on a tight budget. I decided try on gowns at a bridal shop, find my favorite dress, and search for something similar — but thousands of dollars cheaper — on eBay. Since the bridal shop was right in Chris’s neighborhood, my mom and I invited her to join us for lunch.
Chris came
to the bridal shop with us. As
the clerk buttoned me in to my favorite gown — the one I loved the moment I
walked in — my heart simultaneously soared and sank. This dress was absolutely perfect. I had come so close, but so far, to finding a dress as beautiful as I'd dreamed of.
That’s when
Chris revealed her secret plan. She’d come to pay for my wedding gown: one of
the most special parts of our big day. I couldn’t believe it. Just like that,
my dream dress was mine.
Chris has taught
me several things.
·
The time is always right to play a little prank
on someone.
·
If you get bored, you can always play a game to
entertain yourself and your friends, like, “Which of these weird things would you eat
if you had to or else someone was going to shoot you?”
·
It’s usually best to be nice. Except for when
it’s not.
·
Always spoil the people you love.
Some people come from big families
with lot of aunts, uncles, and cousins. I come from a tiny family, but I got
the best deal. I got Chris.
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